I'd say
the commitment to your wife beats the one to Bob D. 
 And if you break that commitment with a VAX in the living room, your wife
 may beat you. In the old days, rolling pins or frying pans were used. I
 don't know what is used today. 
 
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Sellam Ismail                                        Vintage Computer Festival
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